How Do I Stop Grieving?
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How Do I Stop Grieving?
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How It Works and Why It Matters
Trauma impacts more than just emotions. It reshapes the brain, dysregulates the nervous system, disrupts identity, and often severs spiritual connection. Effective recovery must address all of these layers, not just manage symptoms.
The T.R.U.E. North Protocol™ is a phased, trauma-informed coaching model that helps individuals heal from post-traumatic stress, moral injury, complex trauma, and chronic adversity. It is structured to guide clients from biological survival responses to renewed clarity, self-leadership, and post-traumatic growth.
This protocol is not based solely on theory. Each phase is grounded in neuroscience, psychology, somatic regulation, and research on meaning-making, a state of. It is designed to help people understand their trauma, reconnect to their bodies, reconstruct their identity, and reengage with purpose.
Below is a detailed explanation of how the protocol works and why each phase is effective.
When trauma occurs, the brain shifts into survival mode. The amygdala goes on high alert, the prefrontal cortex (responsible for reasoning and decision-making) becomes less active, and the hippocampus (which helps form coherent memory) is disrupted. These changes explain why trauma survivors often feel unsafe, disoriented, emotionally reactive, or shut down long after the event has passed.
The nervous system becomes dysregulated, creating chronic patterns of hypervigilance, anxiety, disconnection, or emotional numbness. Left unaddressed, these biological imprints keep survivors locked in cycles of reaction rather than restoration.
The T.R.U.E. North Protocol™ reverses this process in four deliberate phases.
Scientific Basis
Psychoeducation activates the prefrontal cortex and restores cognitive insight. When clients understand how trauma affects the brain, it reduces shame and increases self-compassion. This is foundational for deeper recovery.
What Happens in This Phase
Why It Works
Understanding that trauma responses are brain-based—not character flaws—allows clients to shift from shame to empowerment. This phase creates the cognitive safety necessary for body-based and identity-based healing to begin.
Scientific Basis
Based on polyvagal theory and somatic psychology, this phase supports the re-regulation of the autonomic nervous system. Survivors learn to move out of survival states and into states of safety and connection by practicing body-based regulation.
What Happens in This Phase
Why It Works
The body must feel safe before the mind can fully process or engage. This phase restores somatic agency, helping clients regain control over their internal environment and prepare them for cognitive and emotional exploration.
Scientific Basis
Grounded in cognitive behavioral Coaching(CBC), narrative therapy, and identity theory, this phase focuses on reshaping the internal belief systems that trauma distorts. It supports self-concept repair and the reintegration of values and meaning.
What Happens in This Phase
Why It Works
Trauma can lead people to believe they are broken, unsafe, or unworthy. This phase helps clients uncover and rewrite those beliefs using evidence-based strategies, supporting the emergence of a grounded and resilient identity.
Scientific Basis
Post-traumatic growth theory, behavioral activation, and positive psychology form the basis of this phase. Purpose-driven living and daily action have been shown to support long-term recovery from trauma and personal transformation.
What Happens in This Phase
Why It Works
This phase turns healing into action. When clients engage in purpose, they move beyond symptom management and into growth. They begin to understand that they are not what happened to them, they are who they choose to become next.
Scientific Basis
Spirituality has been identified as a protective and restorative factor in trauma recovery, particularly among military and caregiving populations. Moral injury research underscores the importance of confession, forgiveness, and spiritual reconciliation in the healing process.
What Happens in This Track
Why It Works.
For those who desire it, spiritual integration offers a powerful path to peace and restoration. Moral wounds require moral repair. This track supports soul-level transformation through faith-based frameworks and client-centered pastoral care.
Trauma Impact Protocol Response: Brain-based fear and hyperarousal, trauma education and cognitive clarity, nervous system dysregulation, somatic regulation and daily rhythm, loss of identity and purpose, narrative reframing and identity mapping, spiritual or moral injury, optional chaplain-led reconciliation and soul repair, disengagement from purpose-building, action steps, and legacy work
The T.R.U.E. North Protocol™ is not a generic coaching program. It is a structured, scalable, and ethically grounded framework that draws from decades of trauma research and real-world experience. Every phase is intentional. Every tool is evidence-informed. Every client is treated with dignity and guided toward lasting growth, not through pressure, but through partnership.
This is trauma recovery without retraumatization. This is leadership through healing. This is the work that changes lives.
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